It's the easiest thing to do isn't it, well it is for some of us! Stop searching is the answer, the instant you stop looking for anything, peace of mind results - no need to stop casting the net, but rather than searching for the fish - just cast the net in a decent spot and sit back and wait. Yeah, I know - what's new about that? Well, if you're anything like me and tend to go into overdrive, you'll know what I mean ..