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Moving fast, moving slow and getting stuff done

You know that feeling you get sometimes when you feel that things are just as they should be? It's an unprompted feeling and sense that everything is happening around you in the right order and at the right moment. I liken it to a combination of belief, awareness and intuition.

Sometimes in life we push, we push hard to get stuff done, to make things happen and at other times we do nothing and let things happen by themselves. It seems to be a fine balance and one that we can influence and maintain as we wax and wane through life. When we know what we want and where it is we are going, this balance gets easier and simpler to feel and see.

If you have ever been involved in marketing or sales you will understand the notion that very often, you will push hard and put energy into certain opportunities to sell your product or service, and then find that those sales that you secure often come from 'out of the blue' as a result of your extended networks or a gesture by somebody who knows and likes what you have to offer to a third party. Before you know it, if what you are doing is right, it snowballs as others get to hear about you and seek you out.

Being in the right place at the right time and maintaining a positive outlook, despite all the trouble life seems to be throwing at you sometimes, is all part of that - putting yourself in the right position and having the common sense to look at what is going on around you and approaching things with this in mind...

Keep smiling and let that feeling wash through you whenever it comes



Peter



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